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#64: 💪🏽 Built by Discipline, Backed by Purpose w/ Lisa Latimer
February 16, 2025
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee sit down with Lisa Latimer—trainer, bodybuilder, mom, wife, and business owner—to talk about the life-changing moments that shaped who she is today.
Lisa shares how fitness became her anchor, what led her to helping others transform their health, and how she now empowers people not only through coaching, but by helping them get certified as personal trainers. We also dive into her newest chapter as a founder, launching her supplement company Alleys End Nutrition—built on real ingredients, real education, and no shortcuts.
This conversation covers:
How fitness can completely change your life
Coaching, mindset, nutrition, and sustainability
Building a business without losing yourself
Why supplements should support your life—not replace it
🔥 Special Announcement:
Messy on Purpose x Alleys End Nutrition are officially collaborating.
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If you’re into growth, grit, and doing things the right way—even when it’s messy—this episode is for you.
#63: 😥 Why Burnout Looks Different for Everyone w/ Ashleigh Grave
February 9, 2025
Burnout doesn’t always look like falling apart.
Sometimes it looks like still functioning… just without feeling alive.
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Ashleigh Grave—holistic nutritionist, author of Navigating Dementia Together, and burnout recovery guide for high-achieving women—to talk about what burnout really looks like when you’ve been pushing for far too long.
Ashleigh shares her own journey of living in burnout for years, and what it took to finally find her way back to feeling human again. That lived experience is exactly what shaped her work today—helping driven, capable women recognize burnout early and rebuild from it sustainably.
We unpack:
Why burnout looks different for everyone
The quiet signs people often ignore until it’s too late
How high-achieving women normalize exhaustion
Why burnout isn’t a personal failure—it’s a nervous system issue
Practical, compassionate ways to recover and prevent it
This conversation isn’t about hustle culture fixes or “just take a vacation” advice. It’s about listening to your body, understanding your unique stress patterns, and learning how to support yourself before burnout takes more than it gives.
If you’ve been telling yourself “I’ll rest later,”
If success feels heavier than it should,
If you’re functioning—but not really living—
this episode is your permission to pause, reflect, and choose a different way forward.
Because healing from burnout isn’t about doing more.
It’s about learning how to be again.
#62: 🙏🏼 Mindset Shifts That Actually Change Your Life
February 2, 2025
What if the things that irritate you most about other people are actually invitations to grow?
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee dive into the real, unfiltered work of self-growth—gratitude, mindset shifts, self-awareness, and the uncomfortable moments that force us to look inward instead of outward.
This conversation isn’t about pretending to be positive or spiritually bypassing hard emotions. It’s about recognizing patterns, questioning our reactions, and understanding how gratitude can shift your entire perspective—if you’re willing to practice it consistently.
We talk about:
How judgment often reveals what still needs healing
Why gratitude isn’t automatic—it’s a skill
The power of mindset shifts that actually stick
Catching yourself before reacting
Growth that happens in real life, not just on social media
This episode is reflective, honest, and deeply relatable. If you’re in a season of self-work, questioning old habits, or learning how to respond differently to life, this one will hit home.
Sometimes growth doesn’t come from doing more—it comes from seeing differently.
#61: 📖 Turning Life Into Chapters (Not Excuses) w/ Roy Black
January 26, 2025
What happens when a chef decides it’s time to tell his story?
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Roy Black—chef, podcast host of Sippin’ and Trippin’, and now first-time author—to talk about what it really looks like to turn your life into a book before you feel fully “ready.”
Roy opens up about:
What inspired him to finally write his first book
The emotional experiences from his life that shaped the story
The writing process—what surprised him and what tested him
The hidden costs of writing and publishing that nobody warns you about
Why telling your story is as vulnerable as it is powerful
We also pull back the curtain on podcasting—the work, consistency, and discipline it actually takes to build and maintain a show people connect with. It’s not just hitting record; it’s showing up, again and again.
And of course, the conversation wouldn’t be complete without talking about food. Roy shares his long-term dream of launching his own food truck, what that vision looks like, and why some dreams take time to simmer before they’re ready to serve.
This episode is about:
🔥 Creating before you feel qualified
🔥 Betting on yourself without guarantees
🔥 Turning life experience into legacy
🔥 And learning that the mess is usually where the story starts
If you’ve ever thought about writing a book, starting a podcast, launching a food venture—or simply putting your story out into the world—this conversation will hit home.
Because sometimes the bravest thing you can do…
is start telling your story while you’re still living it.
#60: 🎥 When Martial Arts Meets Movie Magic w/ Anthony Giovanni Elias
January 19, 2025
What does it really take to make a fight scene look believable on screen?
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Anthony Giovanni Elias—martial arts expert, actor, and stunt professional—to break down the fascinating intersection of martial arts and film. From teaching actors how to move for the camera to understanding why the most realistic move isn’t always the right move on screen, Anthony gives a behind-the-scenes look at the craft that most audiences never think about.
We talk about:
The difference between real martial arts and cinematic martial arts
Why “correct” technique doesn’t always translate on film
Training actors to sell impact, emotion, and story—not just strikes
What it’s really like working in the film industry as a martial arts expert
How choreography, angles, timing, and safety shape every fight scene
This episode gets even better when Lee Cummings joins the conversation—turning what started as a creative discussion into an unexpected bromance. Two filmmakers, two very different paths, one shared obsession with storytelling, film, and making things look damn good on camera.
What unfolds is a raw, nerdy, energetic conversation about:
🎬 Film sets and creative collaboration
🥋 Action storytelling
🎥 Why chaos often creates the best art
🤝 How creative connection can turn strangers into lifelong collaborators
This episode is proof that some of the best conversations—and partnerships—happen when you bring passionate people into the same room and let the mess unfold.
If you love film, martial arts, behind-the-scenes industry talk, or creative energy that turns into something bigger—you don’t want to miss this one.
#59: 🌺 Choosing Yourself Was the Hardest Part w/ Andreea Tanase
January 12, 2025
What if your turning point doesn’t look inspiring… but it saves your life?
In this deeply honest episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Andreea Tanase, founder of Heal Thrive Prosper, to talk about what healing really looks like when you’ve lived in survival mode for most of your life.
Andreea shares her story of surviving childhood emotional abuse, sexual assault, and intimate partner violence—and how years of over-giving, people-pleasing, and staying quiet “to keep the peace” nearly cost her everything. In 2017, a violent episode landed her in the hospital, and that night became her turning point. Not a glamorous one. Not a polished one. But a real one.
From there, the journey was messy. Painfully messy.
We talk about:
How survival patterns are formed—and why they repeat until we change them
The cost of staying silent and abandoning yourself to feel safe
Why healing takes real work, especially in your hardest moments
Learning to rebuild self-worth after trauma
Breaking cycles instead of reliving them
Why you don’t need to be “healed enough” to choose more for yourself
Andreea explains how healing isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about remembering who you were before the world taught you to forget. Through her work, she now helps high-functioning women step out of survival mode and reclaim self-worth as a non-negotiable birthright, not something that has to be earned.
This episode is a reminder that:
✨ Your healing won’t be linear
✨ Your story doesn’t have to be pretty to be powerful
✨ You don’t need permission to choose yourself
✨ Small, imperfect, honest decisions can rebuild an entire life
If you’ve ever felt stuck in the same patterns, questioning why things keep repeating—or wondering if it’s too late to start over—this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.
Because sometimes, the bravest thing you can do is quietly choose yourself… one honest decision at a time.
#58: 🤑 Trust, Truth, and $1M Worth of Proof with Leela Black
January 5, 2025
What happens when you stop betraying your intuition — and finally act on what you know?
In this unapologetically bold episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Leela Black, a powerhouse entrepreneur and advocate for women backing their inner knowing — even when it costs them comfort, approval, or relationships.
Leela shares the real, messy truth of her journey:
Walking away from her mum, her church, and her in-laws
Choosing herself when it felt terrifying
Acting on intuition instead of waiting for permission
Building a business rooted in resonance, truth, and self-trust
Turning over $100K after walking away — and $1M in revenue years later
This isn’t a story about overnight success.
It’s about acting before the evidence shows up.
We talk about:
Why intuition isn’t “woo” — it’s data
How projections from others keep people small
What resonance really means in business and life
Speaking truth to yourself so you can speak it freely everywhere else
Why confidence is built through action, not affirmation
How going ALL IN gives others permission to rise too
Leela is bold, passionate, and refreshingly honest about the decisions that shaped her confidence and success. Her story is proof that when you stop outsourcing your truth and start acting on your knowing, everything expands — personally, professionally, and energetically.
This episode is a reminder:
✨ You don’t need more validation.
✨ You don’t need permission.
✨ You need to trust yourself — and move.
If you’ve been feeling the pull to go all in but fear has been louder than your intuition… this one’s for you.
#57: 🍩 Breaking the Patterns You Didn’t Choose w/ Siah Fried
December 29, 2025
Parenting doesn’t come with a guidebook — until it does.
In this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Siah Fried, parent coach, health educator, and family wellness advocate, for an honest conversation about breaking generational patterns while raising children in real time.
Siah grew up in a family where eating disorders, dieting, overachieving, and self-criticism were normalized — across three generations. When she started seeing those same patterns show up in her own daughter, something clicked:
the cycle had to end with her.
This episode isn’t about perfect parenting.
It’s about honest parenting.
Together, we talk about:
What it looks like to heal your own wounds while parenting
How pressure, achievement culture, and body image issues quietly pass through generations
Why awareness matters more than “doing everything right”
How to shift from fear-based parenting into curiosity and connection
Supporting kids’ mental health around food, body image, anxiety, and performance
Letting go of perfection and choosing compassion — for your kids and yourself
With over 20 years of experience teaching health and nutrition in clinical and educational settings, Siah blends science and soul through her evidence-based Move FORWARD™ coaching framework, helping families create calmer, more connected homes — without the overwhelm.
This conversation normalizes the mess.
Because healing doesn’t mean getting it right every time — it means doing things intentionally, compassionately, and with awareness.
🔗 Connect with Siah Fried
🌐 Website: https://siahfriedcoaching.mykajabi.com/
📧 Email: siah_fried@yahoo.com
📸 Instagram: @siahfriedcoach
📅 Schedule a FREE 30-minute complimentary call: https://calendly.com/siahsfried/30min
Find out how you can work together to support your family’s mental health and well-being.
📚 Siah’s Parenting Guidebooks
(Available on Amazon and her website — short, practical, and evidence-based)
📘 Redefining Success for Every Child: The Family, Flow & Fit Approach to Achieving Personal Best - https://www.amazon.com/Redefining-Success-Every-Child-Achieving/dp/B0FRXLZV27/ref=sr_1_2?crid=1NNRVUK2DEOCU&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.3RhSeLWl6F4-meWap4diajKLzyWSsHdQtgFUEIDSWijGjHj071QN20LucGBJIEps.Inwaxv8T71K2IPyF_vQx8ZP8Tw_8yfHDF_dTxmY2hQY&dib_tag=se&keywords=siah+fried&qid=1765254281&s=books&sprefix=siah+frie%2Cstripbooks%2C169&sr=1-2
A roadmap for raising resilient, whole human beings — not just achievers by society’s standards. This book helps families nurture balance, well-being, and personal growth aligned with their values.
📗 This Stops Now: Shattering the Pattern of Perfection, Pressure, and Parenting on Overdrive - https://www.amazon.com/This-Stops-Now-Shattering-Perfection/dp/B0FS2BTZNP/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1NNRVUK2DEOCU&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.3RhSeLWl6F4-meWap4diajKLzyWSsHdQtgFUEIDSWijGjHj071QN20LucGBJIEps.Inwaxv8T71K2IPyF_vQx8ZP8Tw_8yfHDF_dTxmY2hQY&dib_tag=se&keywords=siah+fried&qid=1765254230&s=books&sprefix=siah+frie%2Cstripbooks%2C169&sr=1-1
A powerful companion guide that helps families step out of comparison and overachievement culture, offering practical activities and reflections to build connection, clarity, and calm.
💬 One parent shared:
“I had so many parenting books gathering dust on my shelf, but this one was totally different. It’s short, impactful, and incredibly practical. I started using the strategies immediately — and even other caregivers picked it up and started applying them too.”
#56: 🤖 The Future of Creativity Isn’t Human vs AI — It’s Human + AI with Lee Cummings
December 22, 2025
Is AI killing creativity — or exposing just how creative we’ve always been?
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with my friend Lee Cummings — film producer, director, videographer, and photographer — for an honest, grounded conversation about creativity in the age of AI.
There’s a lot of fear out there.
A lot of resistance.
And a lot of misunderstanding.
We break it all down.
Lee and I talk about how AI isn’t here to replace artists or creators, but to enhance ideas, expand creative capacity, and remove unnecessary friction in the creative process. When used intentionally, AI becomes a tool, not a threat — one that can help creatives experiment more freely, think bigger, and bring ideas to life faster than ever before.
In this episode, we cover:
Why AI doesn’t make creativity “lazy” — it makes it more accessible
How filmmakers, photographers, and creators can actually use AI ethically
The difference between replacing creativity and amplifying it
Why fear usually shows up right before innovation
How tools have always evolved — and creativity evolves with them
Why intention still matters more than technology
This isn’t hype.
It’s not doom-and-gloom either.
It’s a real conversation between two creatives who understand that art has always changed with the tools available — and AI is just the next one.
If you’re a creator, entrepreneur, artist, or someone feeling torn between curiosity and fear about AI… this episode will shift your perspective.
🎧 Creativity isn’t disappearing — it’s expanding.
#55: ☺️ What Survives the Trauma? Kindness. Breaking Cycles, Healing Generations with Mary Fields
December 15, 2025
What happens when the person who was supposed to protect you becomes the source of your deepest wounds?
In this week’s episode of Messy on Purpose, I’m joined by Mary Fields, a woman whose story is equal parts heartbreaking and incredibly inspiring. Mary grew up in extreme abuse, bounced between children’s shelters, and at just 12 years old, her mother left her alone in a house to raise herself.
Her childhood was chaos. Survival. Silence.
And yet—she didn’t stay there.
As an adult, Mary was diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), became a mother, and made a choice to break every generational pattern she grew up in. But nothing prepared her for the emotional storm that came two years ago when her father passed away, leaving her—his only next of kin—to handle everything.
Grief didn’t just bring pain.
It brought memories, truths, old wounds, and the voice of a very hurt inner child she had carried for decades.
Instead of letting it destroy her, Mary turned it into purpose.
In this episode, we talk about:
What it’s like to be abandoned as a child and still grow up to lead with compassion
The way grief can reopen childhood trauma — and how to navigate it
Understanding DID and how it shaped her healing
How becoming a mom gave her the strength to break generational cycles
The moment she realized her story needed to become a book
Why leading with kindness is the foundation of her healing, her motherhood, and her work
Mary’s story is raw, honest, and deeply human.
It’s a reminder that even the most painful beginnings can lead to the most beautiful transformations — and that kindness is not weakness. It’s courage.
If you’ve ever battled your past, struggled with grief, or tried to become the person you needed growing up… this episode will stay with you.
Connect with Mary:
Author account - IG @authormaryfields Tiktok @authormaryfields
Website: www.authormaryfields.com
For The Merry Assistant
IG @merryassistant
Substack: https://substack.com/@authormaryfields
#54: 🤍 Men Don’t Have to Suffer in Silence — Tim Middelbos on Breaking the Cycle
December 8, 2025
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Tim shares how that breaking point led him to invest everything—literally—to understand his mind, his emotions, and ultimately, himself. From flying to America on a $10,000 loan to learn from Tony Robbins, to spending over $65,000 on mastery with leaders like Eckhart Tolle, Richard Bandler, and Blair Singer… Tim rebuilt who he was from the inside out.
Now he teaches men The Emotional Reset Method™—a powerful framework that helps them understand that emotions aren’t happening to them, they’re happening because of them… and they can be transformed.
We dive into:
The moment he realized emotional strength isn’t weakness—it’s power
Why so many men suffer silently and don’t know how to ask for help
The tools that helped him overcome depression and panic attacks
How men can rebuild themselves after heartbreak, loss, or failure
What emotional intelligence looks like in real life—not theory
His mission to help men stop living in numbness and start actually living again
This episode is raw, eye-opening, and absolutely necessary—whether you’re a man who’s struggling, someone who loves one, or someone who wants a deeper understanding of emotional healing.
If you’ve ever felt like you had to “handle it alone”… this conversation will remind you that you don’t.
Find Tim Here:
Facebook: TIMlifecoaching
#53: 🎬 Opportunity Isn’t Coming—You Have to Build It with Lee Cummings
December 1, 2025
In this episode, I sit down with Director & Producer Lee Cummings — also known as Zell Astin — for a raw, unfiltered conversation about what it really takes to “make it” in your craft.
Everyone sees the final product…
But no one sees the years of unpaid work, late nights after your 9–5, the small paychecks, the self-doubt, the missed opportunities, the “is this even worth it?” moments.
Lee opens up about:
the behind-the-scenes grind nobody talks about
realizing his own struggle with follow-through
learning to take personal responsibility
rediscovering his purpose in real time
why action (not waiting for opportunity) is the only way forward
This is one of those conversations that reminds you:
Nothing is handed to you.
Most of the magic happens off-camera.
And you won’t get closer to your dream if you’re not moving.
If you’re building something — a business, a craft, a brand, a life that matters — this episode is your reminder that the messy middle is where growth happens. And showing up, even when it’s slow, is the work that changes everything.
#52:🎖️ Cory Cerny Served Our Country — Now He’s Helping Others Serve Their Purpose
November 24, 2025
This week on Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Cory Cerny — former U.S. Air Force Special Operations veteran, Executive Performance Coach, and board member of Shields & Stripes, an organization dedicated to helping veterans rebuild mentally, emotionally, and physically after service.
Cory’s story is one of grit, growth, and leadership. From elite military missions to boardrooms and coaching high-performing executives, he’s mastered what it takes to build discipline, resilience, and mental toughness—and now he teaches others how to do the same.
In this episode, we dive deep into:
💪 Lessons from Special Operations that translate into life and leadership
💪 The mindset behind elite performance and lasting discipline
💪 What it means to live to your full potential
💪 The pivotal moments that shaped Cory’s coaching philosophy
💪 Real stories of transformation from those he’s helped lead
Cory’s no-excuses approach to growth is both humbling and motivating. Whether you’re building a business, leading a team, or trying to push past personal limits, this conversation will light a fire under you to take ownership and perform at your best—every single day.
💪 Connect with Cory Cerny:
🌐 CernyPerformance.com
🌐 Shields & Stripes - shieldsandstripes.org/
📸 Instagram: @corycerny
💼 LinkedIn: Cody Cerny
#51: 🎙️ Rebranding, Reinventing & Just Being with Scottie G
November 17, 2025
In this inspiring and high-energy episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Scottie G — host of the Just BE: with Scottie G podcast, Functional Aging Specialist, and coach helping others grow from the inside out.
We dive into all things self-development, from the power of self-awareness to what it really takes to guide others toward lasting change. Scottie shares insights from years of coaching and podcasting, opening up about his own evolution, what it means to “just be,” and how rebranding—both personally and professionally—can transform your entire path when done with purpose.
This conversation is equal parts motivation and mindset reset, packed with practical wisdom, candid stories, and a reminder that growth isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about becoming more of who you really are.
✨ In this episode:
✨ The real process (and purpose) behind rebranding yourself or your business
✨ How to stay grounded through change
✨ What it takes to build a podcast that actually connects
✨ The importance of mindset and consistency in self-development
✨ Why helping others starts with helping yourself
Whether you’re in a season of transformation, thinking about your next move, or just need a little push to keep going—this one’s for you.
🌐 Connect with Scottie G:
📸 Instagram: @justbe.with.scottieg
| @heyscottieg
| @heyjustbe
🎧 Podcast: Just BE: with Scottie G
📘 Facebook: Hey Just Be
#50: 💗 Healing, Awareness & the Power of Better Choices with Kellie Best
November 10, 2025
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, we dive deep into a powerful conversation with Kellie Best — a neuromuscular therapist, life and health coach, and intuitive healer with over 30 years of experience helping others heal inside and out.
Kellie opens up about her incredible journey of resilience — from surviving an abusive marriage and financial loss to uncovering a human trafficking ring that turned her world upside down. Through every challenge, she found strength, purpose, and a powerful mission rooted in her mantra: #BetterChoicesBetterChanges.
We talk about what self-growth really looks like — not the pretty, polished version, but the kind that demands self-awareness, courage, and tough love. Kellie shares how personal growth and situational awareness go hand in hand, both for emotional healing and for keeping ourselves and others safe.
This episode is raw, enlightening, and packed with truth. Kellie’s story is proof that while you can’t always control the mess life throws at you, you can always choose how you rise from it.
✨ In this episode:
Turning pain into purpose through self-awareness
The real meaning of growth and emotional resilience
Why safety starts with awareness
How to lead and heal from your own experiences
The power of choosing better — one decision at a time
If you’ve ever felt stuck in your mess or unsure how to move forward, this conversation will remind you that healing and growth are always possible — even when life gets chaotic.
#49: 💊 One Day at a Time, The Courage to Rebuild After Addiction w/ Brian Meholick
November 3, 2025
In this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose, we sit down with Brian Meholick — a man whose story is raw, real, and deeply inspiring.
Brian opens up about his lifelong battle with addiction and the mental health struggles that fueled it, often without him realizing it at the time. Those battles cost him opportunities, relationships, and nearly his life — but they also led him to a moment of awakening that changed everything.
After an intense turning point in 2020, he began his journey to sobriety and hasn’t looked back — now celebrating five years clean and counting.
We talk about the pain, the process, and the purpose that comes from taking life one day at a time. Brian shares his mission to rebuild relationships, rediscover hope, and remind others that recovery is possible — no matter how broken things once felt.
If you’ve ever struggled with something that felt bigger than you, Brian’s story is proof that healing is messy — but it’s also possible.
#48: 🥾 Finding Purpose in the Peaks with Julia Hartley, Helping the World Reconnect with Nature
October 27, 2025
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, we sit down with Julia Hartley, founder of Guided Outdoor Adventures, whose mission is to bring the magic of the outdoors to everyone—from first-time hikers to corporate teams craving real connection.
Julia shares her incredible journey from sports therapy and endurance racing to building a business that helps people rediscover confidence, calm, and community through nature. What started as a simple dream to lead hikes has turned into a growing adventure movement across the UK, with her sights set on going global. 🌍
We talk about the power of stepping outside—literally—how nature heals, grounds, and inspires creativity, and why the outdoors is one of the most accessible forms of therapy there is. Julia’s story is full of heart, laughter, and purpose—reminding us all that sometimes the path to clarity begins with a single step into the unknown.
✨ Tune in for:
How adventure can spark personal and professional growth
The link between nature, confidence, and healing
The power of community and courage in building a business from scratch
Whether you’re a city dweller who’s never hit a trail or an entrepreneur searching for your next big leap, this episode will inspire you to chase adventure—and yourself—one step at a time.
🌐 Connect with Julia Hartley & Guided Outdoor Adventures:
✨ Website: guidedoutdooradventures.co.uk
📸 Instagram: @juliahartley38
📘 Facebook: Guided Outdoor Adventures
#47: 💸 The Truth About Franchising — And Why It’s Not Just for Fast Food Chains
October 20, 2025
Ever wondered what it really takes to own a franchise—or how to turn your business into one? In this episode of Messy on Purpose, we sit down with Giuseppe Grammatico, a franchise expert, coach, and author who helps people design a life of freedom through franchising.
Giuseppe breaks down what franchising really looks like—how to choose the right model for your goals, the pros and cons of different franchise types, what to expect in the investment process, and how to transform your existing business into a scalable franchise system.
If you’ve ever dreamed of leaving your 9-to-5, building something bigger, or owning a business with built-in support—this conversation is your blueprint.
🎧 Tune in to learn how to find the right franchise fit, what pitfalls to avoid, and how to start building the freedom-based lifestyle you deserve.
✨ Connect with Giuseppe:
🌐 ggthefranchiseguide.com
🎙️ Franchise Freedom Podcast: https://ggthefranchiseguide.com/podcast
📘 Free Book: https://ggthefranchiseguide.com/book/
📱 Instagram: @ggthefranchiseguide
📺 YouTube: GG The Franchise Guide
🅇: ggfranchguide
💼 LinkedIn : gg-the-franchise-guide
✨ TikTok: ggthefranchiseguide
#46:⚡️The Science of Soul Work with Monica Bermudez
October 13, 2025
In this enlightening episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Monica Bermudez — a Quantum Purpose Activator who blends the precision of science with the depth of ancient wisdom. 🌌
Monica shares how she helps people rebuild their chakras, release subconscious blocks, and reconnect with their higher purpose through energy alignment and quantum awareness. We dive into how she discovered her unique gifts, the bridge between logic and intuition, and the power of embracing both.
We also explore the business side — how Monica uses social media and authentic storytelling to reach and serve a global community of people ready to heal, grow, and lead from purpose.
💫 If you’ve ever felt torn between logic and intuition, this episode will remind you that your energy — and your purpose — can coexist beautifully.
#45: 🎨 Creating Without Borders with Chris & Savannah of Sin City Creative
October 6, 2025
What happens when creativity collides with love, business, and global adventure?
In this week’s episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Chris and Savannah, the dynamic duo behind Sin City Creative
. From launching their design business to traveling the world and creating breathtaking art that leaves a lasting impact, their story is as inspiring as it is real.
We talk about:
🎨 The evolution of their relationship while running a business together
🌍 How their travels influence their art and creativity
💡 The lessons they’ve learned working with clients across the globe
✈️ What it was like navigating international projects during the pandemic
❤️ Why creativity is not just about making art—it’s about building connection
Chris and Savannah show us that when you mix passion with partnership, the result is a life filled with messy, magical purpose.
Check out Chris, Savannah, & Sin City Creative:
www.sincitycreative.com/
@sincitycreative
@chrisfulch
#44: 🌎 From India to America, Mamina Das Turned Messy Transitions into Purpose
September 29, 2025
What happens when life takes you across continents, cultures, and callings?
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Mamina Das—therapist, podcaster, visual artist, and author of the children’s book All Is Well. Born in India and having lived in Dubai, Canada, and now the United States, Mamina shares her remarkable journey of embracing change, navigating cultural shifts, and redefining what it means to be a woman across different parts of the world.
Follow Mamina:
@MaminaDasHolisticonversation
We dive into:
✨ The contrasts between life for women in India and the U.S.
✨ How she found her calling working with children on the autism spectrum
✨ The courage it takes to pursue her Master’s in Autism Spectrum Conditions Specialization
✨ Why creativity—through art, podcasting, and writing—has been her anchor through every transition
✨ The importance of saying yes to growth, even when it feels messy
Mamina’s story is one of resilience, creativity, and the power of embracing life’s unpredictable chapters. Her reminder is simple but profound: All is well, even when life feels uncertain.
💡 If you’ve ever struggled with change or wondered how to reinvent yourself in new places and stages of life, this conversation will leave you inspired to welcome your own journey with courage and grace.
#43: 🔮 Becoming Who You Were Always Meant to Be with Lara Bokovay
September 22, 2025
What happens when the “perfect” life script leaves you crying in the dark over a grocery list?
In this week’s episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Leslie Lane Peabody—known as the Ninja in High Heels—a Cinematic Success Coach who knows firsthand that life isn’t always vision boards and green juice. Leslie went from managing billion-dollar budgets by day to bingeing Netflix by night, wondering how she had lost herself in the chaos.
Her turning point? Choosing grit as her plot twist.
Now Leslie helps high-achieving women rewrite their lives before rock bottom writes it for them. She shares:
The messy middle moments that shaped her coaching philosophy
Why authentic storytelling can shift someone’s life forever
How to reclaim your voice, your purpose, and your next scene
The power of being seen, felt, and remembered in every room you walk into
This conversation is raw, real, and packed with reminders that your story isn’t over—it’s just waiting for you to pick up the pen.
💡 If you’ve ever felt stuck in survival mode or like you’re living someone else’s script, this episode will remind you that you can rewrite it, starting now.
Connect with Lara:
Instagram: @larabokovay
TikTok: @larabokovay
#42: ⚾️ When Baseball, Addiction, and Brain Cancer Collide—And How Michael Bugary Survived It All
September 15, 2025
What happens when life strips away everything you thought defined you?
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Michael Bugary—former professional baseball player, motivational speaker, and author of the upcoming book The Disease of Me: How Losing My Professional Baseball Career, Drug Addiction, and Brain Cancer Saved My Life.
Michael’s story is raw, painful, and incredibly powerful. After an arm injury ended his career with the Boston Red Sox organization, he spiraled into addiction, eventually reaching heroin. His battle didn’t stop there—he was diagnosed with a rare, malignant brain tumor the size of a tennis ball, enduring multiple surgeries, chemotherapy, and radiation.
But instead of letting suffering define him, Michael found what he calls “the price of authenticity.” Through rigorous honesty, responsibility, faith, and human connection, he rebuilt his life from the ground up.
This is a story about survival, redemption, and redefining success—not through fame or accolades, but through authenticity and self-acceptance.
💡 If you’ve ever felt broken, stuck, or uncertain of your worth, Michael’s journey is living proof that you can rise again, stronger than before.
Connect with Michael:
Website: www.michaelbugary.com
Facebook: Michael Bugary
Instagram: @mbugary
#41: 👠 Rewrite Your Story Before Rock Bottom Does with the Ninja in High Heels
September 8, 2025
What happens when the “perfect” life script leaves you crying in the dark over a grocery list?
In this week’s episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Leslie Lane Peabody—known as the Ninja in High Heels—a Cinematic Success Coach who knows firsthand that life isn’t always vision boards and green juice. Leslie went from managing billion-dollar budgets by day to bingeing Netflix by night, wondering how she had lost herself in the chaos.
Her turning point? Choosing grit as her plot twist.
Now Leslie helps high-achieving women rewrite their lives before rock bottom writes it for them. She shares:
The messy middle moments that shaped her coaching philosophy
Why authentic storytelling can shift someone’s life forever
How to reclaim your voice, your purpose, and your next scene
The power of being seen, felt, and remembered in every room you walk into
This conversation is raw, real, and packed with reminders that your story isn’t over—it’s just waiting for you to pick up the pen.
💡 If you’ve ever felt stuck in survival mode or like you’re living someone else’s script, this episode will remind you that you can rewrite it, starting now.
#40: ✨ Choosing Yourself, Changing Everything with Johanna Burkhardt
September 1, 2025
What happens when life strips everything away—marriages, stability, even your sense of self—and you’re left with nothing but the choice to start over?
In this raw and empowering episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Johanna Burkhardt—author, coach, and host of Cosmic Blonde—to hear her incredible story of turning pain into purpose.
Johanna opens up about a life marked by abandonment, abuse, and broken relationships—and how those patterns kept her trapped in cycles of trying to heal others instead of herself. After leaving her third marriage in 2020 with nothing but stage three adrenal fatigue, Johanna rebuilt from the ground up, became a nomad, and learned one of life’s most powerful lessons: when you stop abandoning yourself, everything changes.
Now, she’s helping women worldwide reclaim their worth, rewrite their stories, and transform their lives through her coaching, channeling, and upcoming book.
✨ This episode is a testament that no matter how many times life knocks you down, you can rise, heal, and thrive.
Follow Johanna:
Instagram: @offical_johanna_burkhardt
Facebook: Officialjohannaburkhardt
TikTok: @officaljohannaburkhardt
YouTube: JohannaBurkhardt
#39: ❤️🔥 All In, All the Time, Sol Does Motherhood, Family and Business Her Way
August 25, 2025
This week on Messy on Purpose, I sit down with my friend Sol—a woman who redefines strength, balance, and determination. As a single mom raising triplets, Sol is proof that you can handle more than you ever thought possible. She’s not only navigating motherhood times three, but also building a thriving career as a hairstylist, running successful businesses in both California and Las Vegas.
We dive deep into:
❤️🔥 The realities of being a single mom with triplets
❤️🔥 Building a business and sustaining it during COVID
❤️🔥 Managing a hair business in two states
❤️🔥 A long-distance marriage from day one—and the love, challenges, and growth along the way
❤️🔥 Her deep love for her daughters, her husband and his boys, and her family as a whole
Sol’s story is raw, inspiring, and a powerful reminder that there truly are no limits when passion, grit, and love fuel your journey.
#38: 🥃 A Radical New Path to Addiction Recovery with Steve Feldman
August 18, 2025
This week on Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Steve Feldman — a man whose story is nothing short of transformative. After 35 years in the grip of addiction, Steve lost businesses, friendships, relationships, and nearly everything else that mattered. But through faith, perseverance, and a calling from the Holy Spirit, he turned his life around in a way that’s inspiring and game-changing.
Now, Steve is sharing his groundbreaking Christ-centered recovery program, The P.R.O.C.E.S.S., set to release this September. This isn’t your typical 12-step approach. It’s a radical blend of biblical principles, scientific insights, and manifestation techniques designed to help people break free from addiction and build a life rooted in lasting transformation.
In this powerful conversation, we dive into:
✨ Steve’s raw and honest journey through decades of addiction
✨ The moment that shifted everything and put him on a path of healing
✨ Why The P.R.O.C.E.S.S. is a completely different approach to recovery
✨ How faith, science, and mindset can work together to create real change
✨ The hope and freedom that’s possible for anyone ready to break the chains
Whether you or someone you love is battling addiction, or you simply need a story of redemption and possibility, this episode will inspire you to believe in what’s possible — no matter how messy the journey has been.
📅 Mark your calendar — The P.R.O.C.E.S.S. launches this September!
#37: 🇺🇸 Healing the Hidden Wounds of Service with Steven Nisbet, Co-Founder of Shields & Stripes
August 11, 2025
In this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Steven Nisbet, President and co-founder of Shields & Stripes, an incredible nonprofit dedicated to restoring the lives of our military members and first responders.
Steven shares his own military journey and pulls back the curtain on a hard truth: the real lack of assistance and resources available to the men and women who’ve served and protected us. We dive into the story behind Shields & Stripes—how it started, what makes it different from other organizations, and the massive impact it’s already making for those struggling after service.
From the vision to have Shields & Stripes in every state, to how even one small donation can directly change a life, this conversation is a reminder that healing and hope are possible—and that we can play a role in it.
If you’ve ever wondered how you can truly give back to the people who’ve given everything for us, this episode will show you exactly how.
Listen in and learn how you can be part of restoring lives—one hero at a time.
Visit https://shieldsandstripes.org/ to learn more about their mission, read real stories of lives changed, and see how their programs work.
💙 Make a difference today: Even the smallest donation helps provide life-changing support for military members and first responders.
You can give directly here: https://shieldsandstripes.org/donate
Shop their apparel here: https://shieldsandstripes.app.neoncrm.com/np/clients/shieldsandstripes/giftstore.jsp
All proceeds go directly to the program.
#36: 💞 Why Is It So Hard to Make Real Friends as a Woman?
August 4, 2025
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with my new friend Liz for a raw and eye-opening conversation about the way we think—and how that shapes the way we connect.
We explore the difference between logical and emotional thinkers, and why it’s often more common for women to feel deeply but struggle to form deep connections with each other—especially when they don’t think the same way.
As two logical female thinkers, we get honest about the challenges of building real friendships, navigating emotional expectations, and how relationships (of any kind—spouse, friend, sibling) are only as deep as the effort both people are willing to put in.
Real connection isn’t found. It’s built. And it starts with understanding how we think, feel, and show up.
#35: 💪🏽 How Rock Bottom Became His Wake-Up Call | Jason Smith aka FitInMidlife
July 28, 2025
In this real and vulnerable episode of Messy on Purpose, Jason Smith (@FitInMidlife) shares how hitting rock bottom physically, mentally, and emotionally became the wake-up call he needed.
In the mess of letting himself go, Jason didn’t just rebuild—he transformed. He found strength, purpose, and a new mission: helping other people in midlife reclaim their health, confidence, and life through fitness.
We talk about:
🔥 Rebuilding your identity through fitness
🧠 How your health influences everything—your emotions, relationships, and choices
🍷 Why alcohol is one of the most normalized yet damaging habits
🚶♂️ What it looks like to start over in midlife—and actually win
💼 Turning personal transformation into a career of service
Whether you’re deep in the messy middle or just beginning to feel the cracks, this episode reminds you: you’re never too far gone to come back stronger—and your pain might just lead to your purpose.
🎧 Tune in now, and don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share with someone ready to take that first step.
👇 Connect with Jason:
@FitInMidLife
https://linktr.ee/fitinmidlife
#34: ❤️🩹 Generational Patterns, Healing Mothers, and Living On Purpose with Kathi Sohn
July 21, 2025
This week on Messy on Purpose, we're joined by the incredible Kathi Sohn—a mother, author, healer, and woman who’s walked through some seriously messy chapters to discover her truest purpose.
From finding out she was adopted in her 30s, to serving in the U.S. Department of Defense, to navigating the heartbreaking loss of her husband… Kathi has lived a story shaped by truth, resilience, and reinvention.
Now, she’s carrying on her late husband's powerful work to help women—especially mothers—identify the unconscious beliefs driving their lives, stop generational trauma in its tracks, and step fully into healing and freedom.
We talk:
✨ How discovering you were adopted changes your identity
✨ The unexpected link between childhood stories and adult struggles
✨ Why generational trauma can end with you
✨ The powerful message behind her book: You Made It Up, Now Stop Believing It
This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to unpack the old stories they’ve been carrying and replace them with truth.
🔗 Connect with Kathi and explore her work: https://linktr.ee/sohnkat
#33: 💳 From Bad Credit to Boss Moves, Brock Marcus Is Flipping the Credit Game for Entrepreneurs
July 14, 2025
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, we sit down with credit expert and real estate investor Brock Marcus, who shares how he turned his financial upbringing—full of confusion about credit—into a thriving business that helps others do it better. Now in his early 20s, Brock is teaching entrepreneurs how to fix, build, and leverage their credit to unlock serious opportunities. We talk about the messy moments that shaped him, the lessons he taught himself the hard way, and why credit is one of the most underused tools in the game. If you're ready to stop winging it with your finances and start playing smart—this one’s for you.
👥 Follow Brock: @investorbrock_
#32: 🎾 Peter Ho on Building a Life that Matches the Mission
July 7, 2025
In this powerful and vulnerable episode of Messy on Purpose, we sit down with tennis coach and entrepreneur Peter Ho. From the sunny courts of Hawaii to the harsh realities of California streets, Peter opens up about the twists and turns that shaped his journey—abusive relationships, homelessness, and the emotional toll that led to physical weight gain.
We explore how Peter is rebuilding his life—physically, mentally, and professionally. He shares why looking the part matters as a coach, how he's approaching his own health transformation, and what it really takes to turn pain into purpose.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in the mess, Peter’s story will remind you that every setback is a setup for a stronger return.
🎾 Learn more about Peter’s coaching, business journey, and his take on showing up fully—on and off the court.
@coachpeetaho
#31: ✨ Chaos to Clarity w/ Danielle Ford on Politics, Personal Growth & Purpose
June 30, 2025
What happens when you blend raw life experience, real talk, and a drive to make change from the inside out? You get a conversation like this.
In this powerful episode, I sit down with Danielle Ford—mom, entrepreneur, advocate, and member of the Nevada State Board of Education. We go deep into the unexpected moments that shaped her journey, what politics really looks like behind the curtain, and how she continues to reinvent herself through mindset, resilience, and showing up when it matters most.
We talk self-improvement, leadership, healing, and how to make the most of the mess along the way.
Follow Danielle:
📍 Instagram: @daniellefordlv
🌐 Website: www.danielleford.com
#30: 🌎 Midlife Freedom & Digital Nomad Life with Ronda Taylor
June 23, 2025
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Ronda Taylor — digital nomad, mentor, and founder of Midlife Rondavous. Ronda shares her powerful story of walking away from the ordinary to create a life of freedom, adventure, and purpose. From her bold decision to become a digital nomad to her passion for helping other midlife women do the same, Ronda opens up about the beauty — and the mess — of building your own path.
If you're a midlife woman feeling stuck or craving change or just a person interested in becoming a nomad, this episode will inspire you to embrace the unknown and design a life you love. 💛
✨ Connect with Ronda and learn more about her mentorship:
• Website: midliferondavous.com
• Facebook: Midlife Rondavous
• Instagram: @midliferondavous
• YouTube: Midlife Rondavous
🎙 New episodes of Messy on Purpose drop weekly — don't forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review if this inspired you!
#29: 💖 Daddy-Daughter Goals
June 16, 2025
Just in time for Father's Day, this special Messy on Purpose episode will melt your heart. Johnny (from the Vegas Traffic episode) returns — but this time he’s brought along his incredible 9-year-old daughter, and trust me, she steals the show.
Wise beyond her years, full of light, and an absolute inspiration, this little powerhouse talks about her Christian school life, martial arts training, her love for acting and movies, and the amazing bond she shares with both her parents. We dive into what makes their daddy-daughter relationship so special, how faith and family shape her world, and why her mom deserves serious props too.
This one’s full of laughs, wisdom, and those beautiful, messy moments that remind us what life is really about. 💕
#28: 👶 Foster the Future - How Trenton Brisco is Changing Lives & Building Community
June 9, 2025
In this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha sits down with Trenton Brisco to talk about what it really means to show up for kids in need.
We dive into:
👶 His emotional journey into foster parenting
🏡 The real qualifications needed to foster a child
🙌 Why you don’t have to foster to make a difference
🤝 How he's creating a network of support, connection, and purpose
🎉 Events and initiatives he's hosting to raise awareness and bring people together
Whether you're curious about fostering, passionate about giving back, or just need to hear a conversation rooted in heart and hope — this episode is for you.
🌟 Everyone can help. And every child deserves a chance.
🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real, raw, and purpose-filled episodes.
#27: 👑 Crowns, Clients & Chaos: How Michaela Taylor Does It All
June 2, 2025
What do you get when you mix pageant prep, business strategy, motherhood, and relentless drive? Michaela Taylor.
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Michaela — aka Mrs. Aliante America 2025 — opens up about chasing the crown while running a digital marketing + coaching empire and being a powerhouse wife and mom.
👑 Her bold entrance into the world of pageantry
📲 Building a business that’s as strategic as it is soulful
💪 Balancing motherhood, marriage, and massive goals
🔥 How she stays grounded, focused, and on fire for her purpose
This is your reminder that you can do it all — just maybe not all at once. Michaela keeps it real about the wins, the chaos, and the mindset that keeps her moving.
#26: 💸 Airbnbs, Co-Living & Hustling the Vegas Market with Aaron Lambert
May 26, 2025
From rentals to wholesaling to building out co-living spaces — Aaron Lambert has done it all. In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Aaron gets real about the messy middle of his real estate journey and the pivots, lessons, and wins that got him where he is today.
🏠 His first steps into real estate and how it evolved
💸 Learning the ropes of Airbnb and short-term rentals
🔁 The hustle of wholesaling and flipping contracts
🏘️ His passion for co-living and why it’s the future of housing
⚡ Real-life experiences that pulled him into the game
Whether you're a new investor, curious about the Vegas market, or just love a story of grit and growth — this one's full of gold.
#25: 🎬 Lights, Lessons & Action: The Journey of Director Lee Cummings
May 19, 2025
In this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha sits down with director, mentor, and creative visionary Lee Cummings to explore the story behind the spotlight.
From navigating personal hardships to seizing life-changing opportunities, Lee opens up about the pivotal moments that led him to where he is today — including the creation of his film school and mentorship program.
We talk about:
🎬 The highs and lows of his creative journey
💔 The real-life challenges that shaped him
🔥 The passion behind building a program to empower others
💡 Why mentorship is his mission
🎯 What’s next as even bigger doors start to open
If you're chasing your purpose, healing from your past, or figuring out your next chapter—this one's for you.
Interested in Lee's film school and mentorship or just want to give him a follow, follow him on instagram at @lee_the_movie_director
#48: 🥾 Finding Purpose in the Peaks with Julia Hartley, Helping the World Reconnect with Nature
October 27, 2025
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Julia Hartley, founder of Guided Outdoor Adventures, whose mission is to bring the magic of the outdoors to everyone—from first-time hikers to corporate teams craving real connection.
Julia shares her incredible journey from sports therapy and endurance racing to building a business that helps people rediscover confidence, calm, and community through nature. What started as a simple dream to lead hikes has turned into a growing adventure movement across the UK, with her sights set on going global. 🌍
We talk about the power of stepping outside—literally—how nature heals, grounds, and inspires creativity, and why the outdoors is one of the most accessible forms of therapy there is. Julia’s story is full of heart, laughter, and purpose—reminding us all that sometimes the path to clarity begins with a single step into the unknown.
✨ Tune in for:
How adventure can spark personal and professional growth
The link between nature, confidence, and healing
The power of community and courage in building a business from scratch
Whether you’re a city dweller who’s never hit a trail or an entrepreneur searching for your next big leap, this episode will inspire you to chase adventure—and yourself—one step at a time.
🌐 Connect with Julia Hartley & Guided Outdoor Adventures:
✨ Website: guidedoutdooradventures.co.uk
📸 Instagram: @juliahartley38
📘 Facebook: Guided Outdoor Adventures
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